Love & Romance
The fastest way to get your ex back after a breakup
The end of any relationship is difficult to accept. Two people who shared so much together now have to part ways and figure out how to carry on without the other.
The good news is that you weren’t born with this person on your hip, which means you can go back to living without them.
Sometimes, though, you don’t want to. Sometimes, the relationship is rocky and needs work, but is worth saving.
Here’s how to win him back and move forward together.
1. Start by giving your ex boyfriend space. Completely cut off all contact for the moment. This will be an extremely hard thing for you to do. But you must follow through! Take a step back and try to evaluate your own life. Try to come up with ways to improve all aspects of your personal life. This can get you back on the right track, which will help you become more emotionally sound and greatly improve your chances of success.
2. During the non communication time between you and your ex boyfriend, you may find he has had a change in the way he is feeling. Once you are not pursuing him so heavily, he will begin to wonder what you are doing and how you are feeling. This will make him quite insecure in your feelings for him, and just might be the turn around you have been longing for.
3. Once you feel it is time to open the lines of communication again, let him make the first move. You should seem somewhat resistant at first. Playing a little hard to get will only fuel his desire to have you look and feel the loving way you used to towards him. You know what they say, “it’s the thrill of the chase.”
4. Don’t beg. During the time you are taking for yourself, be sure you don’t seek him out and beg for him to come back. Sounds silly, but people do it.
Don’t be so needy that you can’t do anything without him. That might have been part of the reason he left in the first place.
Giving yourself (and him) some space means that you don’t throw yourself at him. It’s just bad for everyone and you’ll regret it later if he only comes back because you wouldn’t stop asking him to.
That’s not how you get him to realize he needs to come back, which is what you want. You don’t have to ask for anything. He’ll come around to the idea on his own.
A Pakistani man has given his wife a gift most of us wouldn’t think of buying. He gifted her an acre of land on the moon as a wedding gift.
The man identified as Sohaib Ahmed, a resident of Rawalpindi, bought the lunar land in the region called ‘Sea of Vapour’.
The land was bought for $45 from the International Lunar Lands Registry.
The couple were sent the documents of the land on the moon at their home via US Postal Service.
According to the Lunar Settlement Initiative’s website, “under the terms of the LSI, property claims on Luna may be offered to private entities to finance the exploration, settlement, and development of the Moon and its resources.”
It further states that “upon the recognition and certification of land claims, property owners shall be entitled to inhabit and develop their property in any manner, subject to any laws or statutes that may be established by the sovereign and independent government of Luna, which shall be freely elected by its citizens.”
Ahmed said that he was inspired by late Bollywood actor Sushant Singh Rajput to buy his own piece of land on the moon. In 2018. Sushant bought a piece of land in the region of Mare Muscoviense, or the ‘Sea of Muscovy’ through the International Lunar Lands Registry.
His wife, Madiha said that her friends did not believe her when she told them about the shocking wedding gift she got from her husband.
“At first everyone thought it was a joke, but then I showed them the documents and then they believed it,” she told Samaa TV. She added that one of her friends also wants her fiancé to gift her a plot of land on the moon for their wedding.
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What are the trust issues?
Where do trust issues come from?
Trust issues usually come from early life experiences, the memories of which tend to stay with us for most of our whole life. People that have been abused or mistreated in their childhood are more likely to struggle with trust issues. This applies to those who used to be social outcasts and have been bullied before. Additionally, trust issues problems do develop due to experiencing a traumatic event, ranging from accidents and losses to your partner to being cheated on.
What are the signs of trust issues?
1. They Do Not Believe What Others Say
2. They Expect The Worst
3. They Keep A Distance From Others
4. They Avoid Commitments
5. They Have Shallow Relationships
How to Overcome Trust Issues And Learning To Trust Again
1. Improving On Communication
2. Avoiding Putting Blame On Their Partner
3. Going For Therapy
4. They Should Work On Building Their Self-esteem
5. They Should Find Support Among People Who Love Them
6. They Should Find A Way To Healthily Manage Their Emotions
7. They Should Move On From Past Experiences
8. They Should Trust Themself (Self-trust)
Unbelievable! Again, a Nigerian man has married a 48-years old american lover in our dear Lagos Registry, in Ikoyi. As gathered, the man has decided to take his relationship with a 48-year-old white woman to the next level by tying the knot with her, as Nigerians on social media reacted to the news as most people believed he married her for money and Green Card.
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A 22-year-old Nigerian man has shown that age is just a number when it comes to love as he married his 48-year-old lover at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos. Pictures of the newlyweds were posted on Instagram by @instablog9ja. Young men have been walking down the aisle with older lovers in recent times as they believe that age is just a number in relationships.
It should, however, be noted that while some of these men have genuine love for their older lovers, others simply tie the knot because of the financial gains attached to the marriage. Nigerians took to the comment section of the post to share their thoughts on the marriage between the 22-year-old man and his older lover. Most of those that commented were of the opinion that the young man is only interested in using the white lady for a Green Card or monetary gain.
Instagram user with the handle @mhiz_teetress wrote: “Okay yahoo to another level.” The young man married his older lover at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos state. Photo credit: @instablog9ja/Instagram Source: Twitter Another user with the handle @diinmah said getting a green card is the most important thing for the young man, adding that loving his older lover would come after the green card. @badderman_ice congratulated the groom and advised him to make money, which he said is the most important thing. @ella_smart_chinyere wrote: “Money must be made.”
In other news, a video has emerged on social media in which a young man was left disappointed while proposing to his lover. In the video, the unidentified man could be seen kneeling down for his lover in the middle of the road, but the lady walked out on him. The man, who at a point started crying, begged the young lady to accept his ring but she refused it and walked out on him, leaving onlookers amazed. Must a woman adopt her husband’s name after marriage?
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Martha
May 17, 2020 at 11:10 am
Kkkk! anyway if he’s gone he’s gone
Eric kingkim Mbulo
May 17, 2020 at 4:10 am
This is great
Joseph
May 16, 2020 at 10:50 pm
Bad idea, for me I won’t come back at all if she apply all these. Reason is — I will feel she don’t care at all, because she may have someone she thought better than me. And because I don’t want to live all my life trying to please or beg a gone girl, I will love to move on too. I can only do any thing for a woman that love and care for me.
Tina bwalya
May 16, 2020 at 9:27 pm
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Anonymous
May 16, 2020 at 6:34 pm
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Idakwo Alexander Akoji
May 15, 2020 at 3:19 pm
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