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How To Recognise And Deal with Trust Issues

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Dealing with Trust Issues
A lot of people struggle with ⭐️trust issues⭐️. This severely damages their interactions with other people. The trust issues problem is not one that can be easily dealt with. It is usually caused by several bad experiences in a relationship.
If you ever feel like you can’t trust anyone or you are one of those people who has “I don’t trust anyone” as their life motto, then recognizing the problem and working on it should be your priority. Mistrustful people are usually suspicious of everyone around them and need to deal with this mentality by building their self-esteem and letting go of their negative past experiences. Here is a guide on how to trust others.

What are the trust issues?

Trust issue indicates a special kind of defense mechanism that is unhealthy and do lead to relationship issues. People having trust issues are excessively suspicious and mistrustful. They do expect to be hurt or betrayed in a relationship. People with trust issues have trouble opening up.

Where do trust issues come from?

Trust issues usually come from early life experiences, the memories of which tend to stay with us for most of our whole life. People that have been abused or mistreated in their childhood are more likely to struggle with trust issues. This applies to those who used to be social outcasts and have been bullied before. Additionally, trust issues problems do develop due to experiencing a traumatic event, ranging from accidents and losses to your partner to being cheated on.

What are the signs of trust issues?

If you are experiencing any of these signs, you need to know whether it occurs in your relationships. If it deeply affects your relationships, then you need to work on overcoming the issue.

1. They Do Not Believe What Others Say

2. They Expect The Worst

3. They Keep A Distance From Others

4. They Avoid Commitments

5. They Have Shallow Relationships

How to Overcome Trust Issues And Learning To Trust Again

People with trust issues need to know how to deal with trust issues and learn to open up to people they are close with. Though it takes a lot of work and self-awareness, it is possible to make things better for yourself by trusting again.

1. Improving On Communication

2. Avoiding Putting Blame On Their Partner

3. Going For Therapy

4. They Should Work On Building Their Self-esteem

5. They Should Find Support Among People Who Love Them

6. They Should Find A Way To Healthily Manage Their Emotions

7. They Should Move On From Past Experiences

8. They Should Trust Themself (Self-trust)

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Pakistani man buys land on MOON as wedding gift for wife

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A Pakistani man has given his wife a gift most of us wouldn’t think of buying. He gifted her an acre of land on the moon as a wedding gift.

The man identified as Sohaib Ahmed, a resident of Rawalpindi, bought the lunar land in the region called ‘Sea of Vapour’.

The land was bought for $45 from the International Lunar Lands Registry.

The couple were sent the documents of the land on the moon at their home via US Postal Service.

According to the Lunar Settlement Initiative’s website, “under the terms of the LSI, property claims on Luna may be offered to private entities to finance the exploration, settlement, and development of the Moon and its resources.”

It further states that “upon the recognition and certification of land claims, property owners shall be entitled to inhabit and develop their property in any manner, subject to any laws or statutes that may be established by the sovereign and independent government of Luna, which shall be freely elected by its citizens.”

Ahmed said that he was inspired by late Bollywood actor Sushant Singh Rajput to buy his own piece of land on the moon. In 2018. Sushant bought a piece of land in the region of Mare Muscoviense, or the ‘Sea of Muscovy’ through the International Lunar Lands Registry.

His wife, Madiha said that her friends did not believe her when she told them about the shocking wedding gift she got from her husband.

“At first everyone thought it was a joke, but then I showed them the documents and then they believed it,” she told Samaa TV. She added that one of her friends also wants her fiancé to gift her a plot of land on the moon for their wedding.

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Nigerians React As 22-Year-Old Man Marries 48-Year-Old White Lover

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Unbelievable! Again, a Nigerian man has married a 48-years old american lover in our dear Lagos Registry, in Ikoyi. As gathered, the man has decided to take his relationship with a 48-year-old white woman to the next level by tying the knot with her, as Nigerians on social media reacted to the news as most people believed he married her for money and Green Card.

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A 22-year-old Nigerian man has shown that age is just a number when it comes to love as he married his 48-year-old lover at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos. Pictures of the newlyweds were posted on Instagram by @instablog9ja. Young men have been walking down the aisle with older lovers in recent times as they believe that age is just a number in relationships.

It should, however, be noted that while some of these men have genuine love for their older lovers, others simply tie the knot because of the financial gains attached to the marriage. Nigerians took to the comment section of the post to share their thoughts on the marriage between the 22-year-old man and his older lover. Most of those that commented were of the opinion that the young man is only interested in using the white lady for a Green Card or monetary gain.

Instagram user with the handle @mhiz_teetress wrote: “Okay yahoo to another level.” The young man married his older lover at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos state. Photo credit: @instablog9ja/Instagram Source: Twitter Another user with the handle @diinmah said getting a green card is the most important thing for the young man, adding that loving his older lover would come after the green card. @badderman_ice congratulated the groom and advised him to make money, which he said is the most important thing. @ella_smart_chinyere wrote: “Money must be made.”

In other news, a video has emerged on social media in which a young man was left disappointed while proposing to his lover. In the video, the unidentified man could be seen kneeling down for his lover in the middle of the road, but the lady walked out on him. The man, who at a point started crying, begged the young lady to accept his ring but she refused it and walked out on him, leaving onlookers amazed. Must a woman adopt her husband’s name after marriage?

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Ladies Only: What Are The Things That Make You More Attractive To Men?

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A lot of ladies often wonder what makes men attracted to certain types of women. Gratefully, science has offered us some explanations, plus seven beauty hacks. When it comes to what they find attractive, guys seem to adhere to their own set of mysterious standards. For most ladies, the focus usually is on the beauty look they want, not necessarily what the guys prefer. Then they wonder why they don’t get hooked.

Ekomiami has compiled a list of top 7 things that guys find attractive in a women.

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Red Lipstick

Red-Lipstick

A study from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology finds a direct correlation between the colour red and males’ attraction to females.

Interestingly, according to the study, “Men seem unaware of this red effect.” This probably explains why men are easily attracted to ladies in red. Yes, red lipstick makes usually the face, not just the lips, very attractive.

Large Hips

Beauty Hacks

This one is quite a no-brainer. Researchers from New Zealand have found that men prefer a larger waist-to-hip ratio of 7:10 over a smaller ratio of 9:10. This means, the smaller your waist and bigger your hip, the more men will find you attractive.

While it is generally believed that men who are attracted to women with large waist do so perhaps, for a reward of pleasurable sex, it’s been found that women who are heavily endowed on the hip easily attract a great deal of attention or interest.

Intelligence

Hey ladies, most times it’s not always about your beauty, you need to have something upstairs too. Nothing melts the heart than sitting close to an intelligent woman who has a deep knowledge of a variety of topics.

Having a high intelligence quotient (IQ), without doubt, undeniably helps a woman to confront and do well in most dreaded tasks. So most men love intelligent women and are said to be attracted to them because most men hate when their partners stress their mental muscles.

Confidence

Beauty hacks

For most men, a woman with low-esteem is really a big burden to shoulder. Most men are attracted to confident women who can really succeed at something with self-assurance and conviction. In a time where everyone wants to be heard or seen, it takes women with energy and determination to make it to the top. And when men succeed in coming close to such women, they hardly let go.

Beauty Hacks For Ladies

Darker Hair Colour

Darker-Hair

The coloured hair trend is back in vogue again. Before you go with the flow, don’t forget research says men are more attracted to women with darker hair colour than others.

Higher Pitch Voice

Have a high-pitched voice? No problem. Research has found that men preferred female voices that are higher in pitch.

Your Cologne

perfumes

Everyone loves a good scent. Research has also shown that men are more attracted to women who wear nice scented perfumes. A good scent doesn’t only leave you feeling high, it also works wonders for your personality. Most men find it difficult to resist this.

Less Makeup

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For ladies who think makeup is the ultimate, sorry to burst your bubble. In as much as makeup helps highlight a woman’s feature, most ladies tend to abuse it. Most ladies think that not wearing makes them less attractive but research has shown that men are more attracted to ladies with less make-up. Being comfortable in one’s skin (without heavily wearing makeup) is one thing most men cherish about women.

Though not exhaustive, these list of beauty hacks are actually research-based and backed by science.

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