Top 7 Noteworthy Signs: How To Know A Guy Is Into You

What do you think when you hear the phrase “he is into me” or when you hear someone tells you a guy is outrightly roaming around them like bees?

Do you act as though this phrase is inconsequential, meaningless, and not ideal?

Not uncovering this dilemma keeps girls hooked to guys subconsciously or try perhaps hard to work out a relationship that may never be meant for them, not if they have understood the body language of guys.

Most times, ladies are locked in the cave of “mixed signals”, they actually don’t know what’s going between them and the guy currently hanging out with them.

Guys on the other hand exhibits some certain traits when around the lady that has their heart. It is important to note that guys more in their actions than words.

Body language expert, Pattie Wood explains that “somebody’s body language can be extremely telling in almost all circumstances.”

So how do you know when a guy is truly after you for a serious relationship and not just trying to win another trophy?

How do you identify his nine-day wonder agenda when he’s not in for something serious?

This is a question that occupies the mind of many ladies. However, in this post, I’d be unveiling this mystery.

Let’s move on.

Here are my seven proven tips to figure out if a guy is into you.

1. He’s Happy When With You

This is one of the obvious signs you see whenever a guy is into you.

Ted Talk guru, Helen Fisher, discovers that love and the limbic reward system are closely related. This connotes that one can become genuinely high when in love.

And love is characterized by joy, happiness, and romance. When you see him staring at you every now and then with that romantic smile, becoming extremely joyous with you than anyone else, that’s a good chance he might be in love with you.

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2. He Shares His Interest With You

Most guys are naturally secretive. Like me, I don’t share something private to me with just anybody, it takes some level of trust and faith before I reveal anything important to me with a friend.

This same applies to all guys. When a guy is trying to build a relationship, they tend to start sharing some part of them which no one knows.

He starts sharing his family background, likes and dislikes, favorite party, colors, and many more. He might even start telling you about his hobbies, bad habits, and previous relationships. Doing this makes him feel intimate you and he might as well be doing this to gain your empathy.

3. He Makes Time For You

A guy who cherishes you will always want to create some special time to be with you, even if he had a long hectic day. he’s not going to start hovering around you like birds, he would always want to have your attention.

Again, he’s doing this to gain your empathy.

4. He Pays Attention To What You Say

Guys don’t like to be submissive to ladies, in fact, most guys barely listen to what any lady has to say. If by any chance a guy starts to listen to your standpoints about the situation and adopt them, it’s most likely a sign he respects and admires you and wants to score a goal with you.

Also, when a guy is into you he wants to know more about you. He’ll be interested in knowing about your past, your parents and others. He’ll retain the details about everything you are telling him.

5. He Shares His Future Plans With You

Opening up for guys might be a very demanding thing. Guys don’t share their dreams and aspirations with just anyone, in fact, they barely tell their closest friends. It’s not pride that makes them act that way, but the risk attached.

Guys don’t share their dreams because of the risk attached. They don’t want to be criticized about the why’s and how’s of their dreams.

So when you see him sharing his future plans and dreams with you, don’t see it as something natural, it’s a body language. He’s doing this because he believes in you and wants to get and from your side.

6. He Cares About You

A guy who wants something serious with you will show it in the way he cares. It will very obvious. He’ll ask about how you feel, what you’ve eaten, and many more. He won’t care about his needs alone, he’s going to keep asking you about your problems and figure out a way to put an end to them.

And you’ll know he genuinely loves you when he keeps doing it tirelessly even when you’re not reciprocating his cares.

7. He Goes After You

Never try to assume that just because a guy loves your company and has displayed some relevant body languages, he’s into you. This is a common myth ladies have failed to check. I’d rather advise that you debunk this notion.

Don’t try to ever run after him or ask him out, it pisses men off and makes you too cheap. Men are goal-oriented and going after what they want.

 If a guy truly is into you he will come for you, if he doesn’t, he’s a nameless coward

 Bottom line?

The signs of true love are not what can be hidden, it’s downright obvious. When someone is into you, you can tell by everything they do. The way they talk, embraces your words, and many others. His body language will speak it even his voice isn’t saying it. Love is light and cannot be hidden.

Do you have any objection or observation, leave it in the comment below.