Love & Romance
Top 7 Noteworthy Signs: How To Know A Guy Is Into You
What do you think when you hear the phrase “he is into me” or when you hear someone tells you a guy is outrightly roaming around them like bees?
Do you act as though this phrase is inconsequential, meaningless, and not ideal?
Not uncovering this dilemma keeps girls hooked to guys subconsciously or try perhaps hard to work out a relationship that may never be meant for them, not if they have understood the body language of guys.
Most times, ladies are locked in the cave of “mixed signals”, they actually don’t know what’s going between them and the guy currently hanging out with them.
Guys on the other hand exhibits some certain traits when around the lady that has their heart. It is important to note that guys more in their actions than words.
Body language expert, Pattie Wood explains that “somebody’s body language can be extremely telling in almost all circumstances.”
So how do you know when a guy is truly after you for a serious relationship and not just trying to win another trophy?
How do you identify his nine-day wonder agenda when he’s not in for something serious?
This is a question that occupies the mind of many ladies. However, in this post, I’d be unveiling this mystery.
Let’s move on.
Here are my seven proven tips to figure out if a guy is into you.
1. He’s Happy When With You
This is one of the obvious signs you see whenever a guy is into you.
Ted Talk guru, Helen Fisher, discovers that love and the limbic reward system are closely related. This connotes that one can become genuinely high when in love.
And love is characterized by joy, happiness, and romance. When you see him staring at you every now and then with that romantic smile, becoming extremely joyous with you than anyone else, that’s a good chance he might be in love with you.
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2. He Shares His Interest With You
Most guys are naturally secretive. Like me, I don’t share something private to me with just anybody, it takes some level of trust and faith before I reveal anything important to me with a friend.
This same applies to all guys. When a guy is trying to build a relationship, they tend to start sharing some part of them which no one knows.
He starts sharing his family background, likes and dislikes, favorite party, colors, and many more. He might even start telling you about his hobbies, bad habits, and previous relationships. Doing this makes him feel intimate you and he might as well be doing this to gain your empathy.
3. He Makes Time For You
A guy who cherishes you will always want to create some special time to be with you, even if he had a long hectic day. he’s not going to start hovering around you like birds, he would always want to have your attention.
Again, he’s doing this to gain your empathy.
4. He Pays Attention To What You Say
Guys don’t like to be submissive to ladies, in fact, most guys barely listen to what any lady has to say. If by any chance a guy starts to listen to your standpoints about the situation and adopt them, it’s most likely a sign he respects and admires you and wants to score a goal with you.
Also, when a guy is into you he wants to know more about you. He’ll be interested in knowing about your past, your parents and others. He’ll retain the details about everything you are telling him.
5. He Shares His Future Plans With You
Opening up for guys might be a very demanding thing. Guys don’t share their dreams and aspirations with just anyone, in fact, they barely tell their closest friends. It’s not pride that makes them act that way, but the risk attached.
Guys don’t share their dreams because of the risk attached. They don’t want to be criticized about the why’s and how’s of their dreams.
So when you see him sharing his future plans and dreams with you, don’t see it as something natural, it’s a body language. He’s doing this because he believes in you and wants to get and from your side.
6. He Cares About You
A guy who wants something serious with you will show it in the way he cares. It will very obvious. He’ll ask about how you feel, what you’ve eaten, and many more. He won’t care about his needs alone, he’s going to keep asking you about your problems and figure out a way to put an end to them.
And you’ll know he genuinely loves you when he keeps doing it tirelessly even when you’re not reciprocating his cares.
7. He Goes After You
Never try to assume that just because a guy loves your company and has displayed some relevant body languages, he’s into you. This is a common myth ladies have failed to check. I’d rather advise that you debunk this notion.
Don’t try to ever run after him or ask him out, it pisses men off and makes you too cheap. Men are goal-oriented and going after what they want.
If a guy truly is into you he will come for you, if he doesn’t, he’s a nameless coward
Bottom line?
The signs of true love are not what can be hidden, it’s downright obvious. When someone is into you, you can tell by everything they do. The way they talk, embraces your words, and many others. His body language will speak it even his voice isn’t saying it. Love is light and cannot be hidden.
Do you have any objection or observation, leave it in the comment below.
A Pakistani man has given his wife a gift most of us wouldn’t think of buying. He gifted her an acre of land on the moon as a wedding gift.
The man identified as Sohaib Ahmed, a resident of Rawalpindi, bought the lunar land in the region called ‘Sea of Vapour’.
The land was bought for $45 from the International Lunar Lands Registry.
The couple were sent the documents of the land on the moon at their home via US Postal Service.
According to the Lunar Settlement Initiative’s website, “under the terms of the LSI, property claims on Luna may be offered to private entities to finance the exploration, settlement, and development of the Moon and its resources.”
It further states that “upon the recognition and certification of land claims, property owners shall be entitled to inhabit and develop their property in any manner, subject to any laws or statutes that may be established by the sovereign and independent government of Luna, which shall be freely elected by its citizens.”
Ahmed said that he was inspired by late Bollywood actor Sushant Singh Rajput to buy his own piece of land on the moon. In 2018. Sushant bought a piece of land in the region of Mare Muscoviense, or the ‘Sea of Muscovy’ through the International Lunar Lands Registry.
His wife, Madiha said that her friends did not believe her when she told them about the shocking wedding gift she got from her husband.
“At first everyone thought it was a joke, but then I showed them the documents and then they believed it,” she told Samaa TV. She added that one of her friends also wants her fiancé to gift her a plot of land on the moon for their wedding.
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What are the trust issues?
Where do trust issues come from?
Trust issues usually come from early life experiences, the memories of which tend to stay with us for most of our whole life. People that have been abused or mistreated in their childhood are more likely to struggle with trust issues. This applies to those who used to be social outcasts and have been bullied before. Additionally, trust issues problems do develop due to experiencing a traumatic event, ranging from accidents and losses to your partner to being cheated on.
What are the signs of trust issues?
1. They Do Not Believe What Others Say
2. They Expect The Worst
3. They Keep A Distance From Others
4. They Avoid Commitments
5. They Have Shallow Relationships
How to Overcome Trust Issues And Learning To Trust Again
1. Improving On Communication
2. Avoiding Putting Blame On Their Partner
3. Going For Therapy
4. They Should Work On Building Their Self-esteem
5. They Should Find Support Among People Who Love Them
6. They Should Find A Way To Healthily Manage Their Emotions
7. They Should Move On From Past Experiences
8. They Should Trust Themself (Self-trust)
Unbelievable! Again, a Nigerian man has married a 48-years old american lover in our dear Lagos Registry, in Ikoyi. As gathered, the man has decided to take his relationship with a 48-year-old white woman to the next level by tying the knot with her, as Nigerians on social media reacted to the news as most people believed he married her for money and Green Card.
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A 22-year-old Nigerian man has shown that age is just a number when it comes to love as he married his 48-year-old lover at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos. Pictures of the newlyweds were posted on Instagram by @instablog9ja. Young men have been walking down the aisle with older lovers in recent times as they believe that age is just a number in relationships.
It should, however, be noted that while some of these men have genuine love for their older lovers, others simply tie the knot because of the financial gains attached to the marriage. Nigerians took to the comment section of the post to share their thoughts on the marriage between the 22-year-old man and his older lover. Most of those that commented were of the opinion that the young man is only interested in using the white lady for a Green Card or monetary gain.
Instagram user with the handle @mhiz_teetress wrote: “Okay yahoo to another level.” The young man married his older lover at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos state. Photo credit: @instablog9ja/Instagram Source: Twitter Another user with the handle @diinmah said getting a green card is the most important thing for the young man, adding that loving his older lover would come after the green card. @badderman_ice congratulated the groom and advised him to make money, which he said is the most important thing. @ella_smart_chinyere wrote: “Money must be made.”
In other news, a video has emerged on social media in which a young man was left disappointed while proposing to his lover. In the video, the unidentified man could be seen kneeling down for his lover in the middle of the road, but the lady walked out on him. The man, who at a point started crying, begged the young lady to accept his ring but she refused it and walked out on him, leaving onlookers amazed. Must a woman adopt her husband’s name after marriage?
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