I remember the first time I fell in love. I became so inhumane. My imagination seems not to be from this realm. I’ve got many ridiculous plans that I can’t even explain how to actualize them. Every now and then the goosebumps of love kept filling my heart and skin explosively.

When I first met her, there’s that feeling I keep having, too hard to be described with words. Every time I sleep, I couldn’t wait till the next morning to quickly tell her good morning. I was completely overwhelmed with LOVE.

Many folks are out there having these feelings but don’t know what’s actually happening to them. The aura of dopamine fills their body whenever they think about that person yet they don’t know what is happening to them.

Recently, I engaged my friends in conversation about this subject. They actually went above and beyond to uncover the hidden gems of this enigma.

I want to share with you the exact pointers to being in love that my friends shared with me.

Are you set for this?

Let’s begin.

6 Surprising Signs That Prove You Are In Love

1. You Feel Happy When You Think About The Person

As generic as this may sound, this is one of the indicators of your unseen love life. The hormones responsible for this in our body is called “dopamine”.

According to research, the Ventral Tegmental Area or VTA floods the body with excessive dopamine when a person is in love. This dopamine in turn produces an unending joy whenever you think of that individual.

There’s that smile that comes to your face whenever you check the last selfie you took with that handsome guy. You think of that last place you went together, the conversation you had together and others and you literally can’t stop smiling. That overwhelming love kept you, hostage, that even sleep couldn’t come close. That’s a pointer that you’ve just nailed it. You are in LOVE.

2. You Always Want To Hang Out With The Person

There’s one thing about love, it makes you behave weird. Many at times you literally would not want to give any other guy that precious moment of yours, after being through a long hectic day, all you want to get is some sleep.

What happens when you’re in love?

Even sleep does have a way of obeying. Prior to the time you left work, you already itemize the strategies you’ll be using to tell the story of your day to that special person even when you are tired. You’ve always dream to hang out with him.  

3. You Are Open To Learn New Things.

Let’s say that person loves music and art and you didn’t.

Something dramatic happens when love sets in. Your perspective about your hobbies changes and you want to start doing the things he loves so you can gain more attention from him. After all, attention from him is what you earnestly desire.

The body has a way of adapting to unfavorable situations when love is in play. You want to go to the fire and water with him.

4. You Can’t Stop Thinking Of Him

Again, studies have shown that the serotonin (a mood regulator) levels dramatically drop off when one is newly in love.

This results in incessant thinking about the person. You begin to see the person in everything you do. You imagine going to the same place to work with him. During sleep hours, you want to be with him. You are overly occupied with him. Your mind is filled with him.

5. You Get Jealous

Have you considered that feeling you have whenever you see any other opposite sex with that guy?

You will literally become so awkward at what is considered normal. What matters to you is your staying with him always. You never want anyone else to stay with him.

6. You Want To Speak With Him Always

A friend of mine told me of how she places so much value on calls and text messages whenever she is in love.

You would insanely wake up to check your phone not to check for anything else but messages and calls from the one you love.

Whenever you call him the night before and he didn’t pick up, the first thing you want to do when you wake up the next morning is to pick up your phone to check for any missed call.

You want to see them speak with you every single time.

Well, that happens to me as well. I’d literally want to talk to her every and every hour. You wouldn’t imagine that smile and joy that get me hooked whenever I speak to her.

Bottom Line?

Love has a way of revealing himself. There are many weird signs that comes up when one is in love.

 Watch out for my next post.