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Things Wise Nigerian Girls Should Never Do In The Name Of Love

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Love indeed is a beautiful thing. in loving others, it is pertinent that we do not lose ourselves cause he who loves too much loses everything. Some Nigerian girls tend to mistake love for stupidity, hence do some things they should not do.

They fall in love with a guy and all of a sudden they start acting foolishly and when questioned, they wave it off and say ‘things we do for love.’ Sister, wake up. Love isn’t meant to be blind, it is meant to bold and wise.

Well, not all single Nigerian girls are foolish. Some are an exception, homely, wise, and because they know some things do backfire, no matter how much in love they are, they will not do the following things;

  • Wise Nigerian girls will not love a married man and expect him to love them back.
  • Go out with a single man who is dating married women.
  • Act like they love a married man just because they want him to finance them.
  • Try to use pregnancy to make a man marry them.
  • Use s*x as bait to keep a man who does not love them.
  • Continue in a relationship with a man they know has other women.
  • Wise Nigerian girls will not try to win the heart of a guy who is in love with someone else.
  • Date a married man and ask him to leave his wife for them.
  • Date and refuse to leave a man who abuses them physically and emotionally just because of love.
  • Marry a man they just met and hardly know.
  • Advertise their relationship; boyfriend, husband on social media.
  • Date a cultist, a drug addict, and/or hardened criminal.
  • Give all their savings to their boyfriend all in the name of love. (Husband is understandable).
  • Take a blood oath with a guy in the name of love.
  • Do his laundry and meals as a housewife will.
  • Send their nude pictures to a guy.
  • Share all their secrets with their man.
  • Steal/borrow money to finance a guy.
  •  Accept to be a second wife because of so-called love.
  • Accept to be a side chick.
  • Get engaged without the consent of their parents.
  • Wear self-bought engagement rings just to scare other guys away because they are in love with one “invisible” dude.
  • Give a man s*x simply because he promised marriage.
  • Stalk an ex on social media and even in reality.
  • Take a night bus and travel 12 hours to meet a man.
  • Live with a man who has not paid their bride price or married them.
  • Fight dirty with another girl over a man.
  • Date a guy who is unfaithful to them.
  • Have unprotected sex with their boyfriend because he loves it raw.
  • Turn down a wealthy man’s hand in marriage for a poor boyfriend just because they love him.

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Pakistani man buys land on MOON as wedding gift for wife

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A Pakistani man has given his wife a gift most of us wouldn’t think of buying. He gifted her an acre of land on the moon as a wedding gift.

The man identified as Sohaib Ahmed, a resident of Rawalpindi, bought the lunar land in the region called ‘Sea of Vapour’.

The land was bought for $45 from the International Lunar Lands Registry.

The couple were sent the documents of the land on the moon at their home via US Postal Service.

According to the Lunar Settlement Initiative’s website, “under the terms of the LSI, property claims on Luna may be offered to private entities to finance the exploration, settlement, and development of the Moon and its resources.”

It further states that “upon the recognition and certification of land claims, property owners shall be entitled to inhabit and develop their property in any manner, subject to any laws or statutes that may be established by the sovereign and independent government of Luna, which shall be freely elected by its citizens.”

Ahmed said that he was inspired by late Bollywood actor Sushant Singh Rajput to buy his own piece of land on the moon. In 2018. Sushant bought a piece of land in the region of Mare Muscoviense, or the ‘Sea of Muscovy’ through the International Lunar Lands Registry.

His wife, Madiha said that her friends did not believe her when she told them about the shocking wedding gift she got from her husband.

“At first everyone thought it was a joke, but then I showed them the documents and then they believed it,” she told Samaa TV. She added that one of her friends also wants her fiancé to gift her a plot of land on the moon for their wedding.

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How To Recognise And Deal with Trust Issues

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Dealing with Trust Issues
A lot of people struggle with ⭐️trust issues⭐️. This severely damages their interactions with other people. The trust issues problem is not one that can be easily dealt with. It is usually caused by several bad experiences in a relationship.
If you ever feel like you can’t trust anyone or you are one of those people who has “I don’t trust anyone” as their life motto, then recognizing the problem and working on it should be your priority. Mistrustful people are usually suspicious of everyone around them and need to deal with this mentality by building their self-esteem and letting go of their negative past experiences. Here is a guide on how to trust others.

What are the trust issues?

Trust issue indicates a special kind of defense mechanism that is unhealthy and do lead to relationship issues. People having trust issues are excessively suspicious and mistrustful. They do expect to be hurt or betrayed in a relationship. People with trust issues have trouble opening up.

Where do trust issues come from?

Trust issues usually come from early life experiences, the memories of which tend to stay with us for most of our whole life. People that have been abused or mistreated in their childhood are more likely to struggle with trust issues. This applies to those who used to be social outcasts and have been bullied before. Additionally, trust issues problems do develop due to experiencing a traumatic event, ranging from accidents and losses to your partner to being cheated on.

What are the signs of trust issues?

If you are experiencing any of these signs, you need to know whether it occurs in your relationships. If it deeply affects your relationships, then you need to work on overcoming the issue.

1. They Do Not Believe What Others Say

2. They Expect The Worst

3. They Keep A Distance From Others

4. They Avoid Commitments

5. They Have Shallow Relationships

How to Overcome Trust Issues And Learning To Trust Again

People with trust issues need to know how to deal with trust issues and learn to open up to people they are close with. Though it takes a lot of work and self-awareness, it is possible to make things better for yourself by trusting again.

1. Improving On Communication

2. Avoiding Putting Blame On Their Partner

3. Going For Therapy

4. They Should Work On Building Their Self-esteem

5. They Should Find Support Among People Who Love Them

6. They Should Find A Way To Healthily Manage Their Emotions

7. They Should Move On From Past Experiences

8. They Should Trust Themself (Self-trust)

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Nigerians React As 22-Year-Old Man Marries 48-Year-Old White Lover

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Unbelievable! Again, a Nigerian man has married a 48-years old american lover in our dear Lagos Registry, in Ikoyi. As gathered, the man has decided to take his relationship with a 48-year-old white woman to the next level by tying the knot with her, as Nigerians on social media reacted to the news as most people believed he married her for money and Green Card.

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A 22-year-old Nigerian man has shown that age is just a number when it comes to love as he married his 48-year-old lover at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos. Pictures of the newlyweds were posted on Instagram by @instablog9ja. Young men have been walking down the aisle with older lovers in recent times as they believe that age is just a number in relationships.

It should, however, be noted that while some of these men have genuine love for their older lovers, others simply tie the knot because of the financial gains attached to the marriage. Nigerians took to the comment section of the post to share their thoughts on the marriage between the 22-year-old man and his older lover. Most of those that commented were of the opinion that the young man is only interested in using the white lady for a Green Card or monetary gain.

Instagram user with the handle @mhiz_teetress wrote: “Okay yahoo to another level.” The young man married his older lover at the Ikoyi Registry in Lagos state. Photo credit: @instablog9ja/Instagram Source: Twitter Another user with the handle @diinmah said getting a green card is the most important thing for the young man, adding that loving his older lover would come after the green card. @badderman_ice congratulated the groom and advised him to make money, which he said is the most important thing. @ella_smart_chinyere wrote: “Money must be made.”

In other news, a video has emerged on social media in which a young man was left disappointed while proposing to his lover. In the video, the unidentified man could be seen kneeling down for his lover in the middle of the road, but the lady walked out on him. The man, who at a point started crying, begged the young lady to accept his ring but she refused it and walked out on him, leaving onlookers amazed. Must a woman adopt her husband’s name after marriage?

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